Ok well I thought being 21 would mean something but not really I was sposed to go out with my sisters and cousin but Ashley passed away and I was in Kentucky anyway and I was way to tired… I think turning 21 isnt as great as everyone makes it out to be but it could be cuz I have 2 kids and over the past 2 years i have had to grow up way to fast well faster then I wanted to any.. I love my kids but I think what if I never had them or what I waited to have them would Kyle still be there father or would he have stayed behind in IL when I moved to Nc.. But it dont really matter I guess cuz I have 2 great kids (well great most of the time) lol.. I know I am more blessed then so many people so I cant and shouldnt be complaining there are some people who will never have a baby… But then there are those who dont want a baby and have one.. I wanted both of my babies so I am glad I didnt do anything differnt but still the what if’s are always there you know?

I can only think of 2 things that happen when you turn 21. One is that you can legally buy hard liquor, mixed drinks, and get access to places that serve them. The other is that under federal law you can legally buy a handgun. These things may vary where you live.
When I turned 21 I was living in the industrial paradise of Olathe, Kansas, driving a $700 rusted-out Volkswagen, chasing married women and making other really bad decisions. It was fun. Those days are gone now, I think.